What is your best “met the high school bitch/bully as an adult” story
【1】(rtillaree) I own my own gym and have for a few years now. I received a message one day from a familiar looking name on the business’ Facebook page from a women asking to come try us out. We set it up, she comes in for an introduction, she’s a very very large and out of shape woman at this point. After about 5 minutes of working with it her, it hits me that this lady used to be about half her current size and was an absolute b___ in her hay day.
I decided not to bring it up to her as she appeared to be struggling in life and came to us in a time of need and I took it, as I do with all of my clients, as a cry for help. Not to mention, I’m a grown man now and that seemed pretty silly and insignificant in life today.
Months later during one of the classes, I noticed her struggling real hard so I go over to offer some encouragement. As I leaned down to say something to her, I notice she’s crying faintly to herself. She looks up at me and quietly says “Sorry for how nasty I was to you years ago and thank you for doing this for me.”
Turns out an old mutual friend told her about my place and she recognized me as the owner and came to me on purpose.
No, not a story of revenge or retribution, but, she reached out to someone she was terrible to and today, she’s re-purposed and I find it to be quite inspiring.
【2】(shtoups) I had an evil 5th grade teacher who made my life terrible for a year. She even instigated a “Pick on Shtoups day”. I saw her at the bar where my friend worked. The day before this we had invented a shot that tastes like urinal cakes smell (Captain Morgan’s lime bite mixed with Miller High Life). I bought my old teacher and her friends a round from across the bar. I made eye contact and raised my shot of Wild Turkey. They gave me a curious look but took the urinal cake shots nonetheless. My old teacher proceeded to throw up on the bar and get 86ed from one of the only bars in town. Fuck you Mrs. Freeman!
【3】(cboogie) Not quite the same but… About 10 years ago I caught my dad screaming at the TV.
“This fucking asshole got his own show! He was such a piece of shit when we were kids. He would beat you up for your lunch money. Push you for no good reason. Take your toys. And based on the way he acts now it does not seem like he grew up much.”
He was talking about Paul Teutul Sr. from American Choppers.
【4】(asshat_backwards) Moved to a new school in 7th grade and was doing fine — making friends, good grades. Then somehow ran afoul of this bigger kid (he’d been held back a few times). Typical bully — pushed little kids into lockers, loved to torment girls and ran with a pack of acolytes who adored and aped him. In Texas at the time, if a kid didn’t like you, he “called you out” (challenged you to a fight after school). Well, “Zed” calls me out one day, because I was a “faggot from New York.” Clueless me (moved there from said NY, where people are civilized), I said, “Sure, ok.”
A few days later, in front of his acolytes and a small group of my friends, he proceeds to beat the shit out of me. It was 7th grade, so the damage wasn’t excessive — mostly to my pride. Spent the rest of middle school known as one of the guys “Zed beat the shit out of.”
Fast forward about seven years, home from college and going to the grocery store for mom. Who should I see bagging my goodies but Zed. Taking a look at him, I see a horrible scar running from the top of his head down around the back of his skull and neck and under his shirt.
His face lights up when he sees me, and he says, in slightly slurred speech, “Hey! Didn’t we go to school together? We’re friends from school, right?” He walks with me out to the parking lot, and as we walk I learn that he had been hit by a car in high school while biking home one day. Accident required a half-dozen surgeries and had left Zed mentally impaired and a completely different person.
He put my stuff in the car, shook my hand for a good 30 seconds and kept asking me to “come back and see me sometime!”
I had hated few people in my life to that point, and no one more than him. Almost cried driving home, I felt so bad for him and disgusted with myself for my previous hatred.
【5】(ehjoshmhmm) I work in a jail, I’ve seen the “popular kids” on the other side of the bars…
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嗯… 好帖2016年8月8日 18:26
看到倒数第二条，首先，po不计较恩怨地怜悯不幸者，让人钦佩。然后，为他人的不幸难过，怜悯是好事，可为什么要厌恶自己的怨恨？做了损害他人身体和尊严的事所以被怨恨，这理所当然不是吗。对不幸者感到怜悯，对犯罪者表示怨恨，为什么要把这两者混在一起？我处理这些人的方法是，实事求是。他是个做坏事的人，我就算计他。既然他(从表面上看)已经变得温和真诚，我愿意温柔以待。至于我曾经怨恨过他…那份怨恨是他应得的啊 : )
She even instigated a "Pick on Shtoups day".
这个的意思是她发起了“欺负楼主日”。 因为楼主的网名是shtoups。如果楼主现实中叫mike就会是欺负mike日这样的。2016年8月7日 21:57